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Have you been overwhelmed by the influence of celebrities in your life? Have you felt a stab of envy at their money, power, fame, prestige, cars, houses, boats, or planes? Have you considered buying products endorsed by these Hollywood stars? Or have you picked up the latest issue of ‘People’ magazine just to keep up with the latest buzz in the world of celebrity? We all have.
The cult of celebrity has spread like wildfire. It has pervaded our culture with an overwhelming influence in every facet of our lives — entertainment, politics, sports and religion.
The increasing influence of celebrities is evident by the fact that we all are attracted towards the fame of celebrity. Not only entertainers and the stars of Hollywood, but politicians and athletes too are all striving to win our hearts with their newfound fame as celebrities. Their increasing influence in our lives is evident from the fact that the media spends a great amount of resources to highlight stories about these stars even when the moral outcome of these stories negatively impacts our lives.
Our media feels pride in showing Michael Jackson dangling his child from a hotel window or Britany Spears driving recklessly with her kids tucked in her arms. It’s a sad state of our culture that our politicians are measured by the worth of their celebrity status rather than by substance of their ideals.
Reason # 1
We worship the greatness of celebrities but we seldom strive for the celebrity of greatness.

We have reached another tipping point in our culture by worshiping the greatness of celebrity — We see Paris Hilton more and more in the media and the paparazzi are addicted to feed on every hysterical act of Britany Spears only because our urge to acquire their celebrity status has bamboozled our sense of true happiness. There’s a plethora of magazines that show front-page covers with semi-nude celebrities that are becoming the idols to our young generation. The ethos of the popular culture of the masses has become the new world order.
Every woman should have four pets in her life. A mink in her closet, a jaguar in her garage, a tiger in her bed, and a jackass who pays for everything. — Paris Hilton
This is the quintessential sign of a cultural decline when a celebrity espouses a way of life that can only bring misery in the lives of women who follow this advice. The underlying message is clear, “I can buy a Jaguar but you can’t”. The aim is to create a cult of worshipers who don’t see how self-absorbed and ludicrous these celebrities are who feel pride when they boast about their extravagant way of life. The underlying message makes a mockery of personal responsibility for our actions. How about trying to help those in need rather than aiming to have a tiger in your bed or a Jaguar in your garage - especially when you don’t have the means to pay for these luxuries?
This culture of extravagant consumerism has banished the moral compass of decency and the values of hard work, integrity and compassion for others. When was the last time you remember seeing those courageous people helping victims of Katrina in the media coverage? When was the last time you heard about the countless ordinary folk people who sacrifice everything to help a neighbor in need?
Reason # 2
We love freedom of speech but our expressions are enslaved by the cult of celebrity.
We all remember those fiery words of Patrick Henry, “Give me Liberty, or give me Death!” The speech embodies human yearning to think and express views with freedom without restrictions. The underlying philosophy behind freedom of speech is noble – to dream and achieve our human potential only limited by the limits of our thoughts.
The same freedom of expression has allowed our celebrities to have sway over our tastes and to paralyze our sense of independence. The malady of cult behavior has given power to these celebrities to enslave our collective psyche and to shape our fundamental attitudes and preferences with a heavy dose of declining morals. Our ability to think and guide our own destiny has evaporated in the fumes of a pipe dream that absorbs our precious life energy and leads us to follow celebrity advice on issues ranging from from the bedroom to the boardroom.
These celebrities influence our decision-making on things as mundane as what type of cereal to eat in the morning to what kind of automobile we should purchase. We have become addicted to the cult culture to please others in order to carve out our identity. Celebrities have now taken over the reign of politics and public policies that define the character of our nation. Their persona — name, charm, wealth and media savviness - has eclipsed the moral character of public service. The negative effect of the cult syndrome is the fact that a politician is doomed to fail without the appeal of celebrity. I wonder if Patrick Henry would have been inclined to change his speech if he was alive today?
Reason # 3
The cult of celebrity has turned our lives into an empty shell showcasing the hysterical stampede for public glory.
One of the fastest growing epidemics is our belief that success is measured by the degree of public glory we receive. Our collective desire to seek approval from others has grown to an astronomical proportions. Have you been dissatisfied with your looks? Have you entertained the notion that if you don’t look like Brad Pitt or Angelina Jolie, you are inferior? The increasing desire to look and feel like a celebrity has fueled the growth of the ‘reality TV’ industry into a multi billion dollar business.
We all want to be an instant celebrity to drink the nectar of fame and fortune. More is better… this is the mantra driving our economic engine. We purchase cars we can’t afford, we purchase houses that are too big, and we wear expensive clothes to create a mythical identity of fake celebrity. We have allowed the cult of celebrity to steal our conscience and sense of dignity. We adore the singing ‘American Idols’, but we seldom think about the unsung heroes who selflessly and tirelessly work to make our world a peaceful and better place to live.
The cult of celebrity has cornered every facet of our lives — our values and happiness have been seized by the growing desire to seek outer glory at the expense of inner peace.
It’s time to awaken and pull ourselves out of this cult brainwashing that has robbed our freedom to think and be proud of ourselves for who we are. It is an act of a daft fool to surrender our freedom and pursuit of happiness to the cult of celebrity. Do you agree?
To Your Success,




“Have you been overwhelmed by the influence of celebrities in your life?”
Nah… I am happy to say that I couldn’t care less about celebrity culture.
Well written!
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I’ve always been turned off by the celebrity culture, too. That’s especially true when it invades the presidential campaigns. I jokingly say I’m voting for Paris Hilton.
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I agree, we spend so much time obsessing over the celebrity cult. Instead of doing something worthwhile with our lives and our time.
I thought the Paris Hilton quote was hilarious, but sad at the same time. Wow.
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Very good article Shilpan….I agree totally….look at how sites like facebook & myspace cater to that cult of celebrity, which pushes people to post really stupid things and pictures about themselves just to get attention. thanks for the post!
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Speak for yourself! Just seeing that picture makes me cringe. What sane person would care about a brat? For me, a person has to earn respect. I’ve worked in TV and film and most “celebrities” have the same issues as anyone else. They are rarely an example of greatness. Fame and money do not mean happiness as many have so well proved. Respect should never be given for what someone has, only for what they give.
What’s sad is that the paparazzi exist because there is demand for this useless information. If people didn’t care, the information porn would vanish. If people understood the power of their attention, they would put it to more constructive use rather than wasting their potential in drivel.
So often, we fuss about the condition of the world yet we fail to see the connection of where we spend our money and attention. Would people steal if there was no demand for stolen property? Would so many be deeply in debt if they focused on quality of life rather than quantity of stuff? Everything we see is an expression of our intentions. We can do better…
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I have never been taken by the celebrity craze. For example, celebrity magazines are about as entertaining to me as staring at the wall.
Well, they may be fun for 5 minutes, but only once a year.
Very cool presentation.
One should treat celebrities like what they are: momentary entertainment. Watch, read, listen, enjoy and then go out and live your life based on your own experiences, choices and knowledge. People, we simply have to learn to live as individuals and not one of the herd.
-Tabs
I don’t follow religiously what celebrities do or go crazy over them. Having said that, there are some celebrities who have used their popularity to bring more awareness to certain charitable organizations. They can be beacons of light.
For instance, I don’t admire Angelina Jolie for her looks but I admire her for her generosity in spirit and giving. She draws on her celebrity status to raise funds for causes that she passionately believes in. Sure…she has her imperfections but I’d also like to think that she has many attributes that are worth emulating.
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“have a tiger in your bed or a Jaguar in your garage - especially when you don’t have the means to pay for these luxuries?” Um . . . hopefully you’re not paying for the tiger in your bed
But seriously, today I was watching a snippet on CNN where Matt Damon was talking about how ridiculous it was for McCain to have selected Palin as his running mate when he had a 1 in 3 chance of dying in office. Who needs political advice from Matt Damon? I think he’s a great actor, but I really don’t care about his political views.
I thought it was really sad when paparazzi kept following Britney Spears around while she was going through such a dark time in her life. I would switch the channel every time she came on.
I agree we should reject the cult of celebrity Shilpan.
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Hi Shilpan,
This is a very powerful post. I especially like point #1 - “We worship the greatness of celebrities but we seldom strive for the celebrity of greatness.” I have to get my daughters to read this! Thanks for sharing.
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Sometimes I think the media is working with the government and uses the non-stop coverage of celebrities to distract the average individual from the real and serious issues occurring in the world.
Who are the people who care what Paris Hilton or Britney Spears are doing? I don’t seem to know any.
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Shilpan, you’re spot on with this article. Celebrity worship is a sure sign of how off-course mainstream society is becoming. The people who are shoved down our throat by basically every media outlet rarely deserve the attention they garner, and the true heroes of the world are left toilign away in the shadows.
I can’t believe that quote by Paris Hilton. Does that woman realize what an idiot she sounds like? I’m guessing not.
I read an article just this week that talked about how so many of the new tv shows are about rich people and it normalizes an extreme lifestyle that almost none of us will ever afford. The writer questioned if this affected the perceptions of everyday Americans who will vote for politicians that give tax cuts to the rich, like one day that will be them. Otherwise why would they vote for people who have no understanding of what their life is like.
It’s a fascinating topic and I could rave on about this all day. But I do have a life waiting so cheerio!
Kelly
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Hi Shilpan,
I would rate this your best post till date.
Very bold and confident writing, indeed. You have clearly expressed yourself when you say,”This is the quintessential sign of a cultural decline when a celebrity espouses a way of life that can only bring misery in the lives of women who follow this advice.”
Another sentence is great too:”The underlying message makes a mockery of personal responsibility for our actions.”
Till now I used to read and admire your writing.
Now I see a more advanced maturity in your work and admire it even more.
I plan to read out to my students, parts from your post, for value-education classes.
Thank you for this outstanding writing.
Ayesha
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One of my mentors shared a lesson with me …
He said there are no great people. Everybody has flaws. Instead, people have great achievements or great attributes.
One of John Wooden’s great attributes is his peace of mind. He said he achieves it by knowing he gave his best.
I’m a fan of building reference libraries of role models to draw from.
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HI Shilpan - I really like the first point about the greatness of celebrity vs. celebrating true greatness. It’s sometimes hard to recognize true greatness today since it’s hard to capture in a catchy title or in short YouTube video, but the shallowness of celebrity is fleeting, while true greatness will last the test of time.
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I have written a piece on the superficial nature of celebrity culture.
http://stuffgirlslike.wordpress.com/2008/04/24/the-superficial/
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Shilpan,
Most people still believe that happiness comes from fame and fortune so we continue to idolize those that have it. Until we figure out that happiness comes from being fully engaged in our lives, from developing our own talents and strengths and using them to make a positive difference in the world, people will continue to bow down and worship at the altar of celebrity.
It’s sad that we are all so misled and confused about what will make us happy, but we are impatient. We all want the quick fix. Why eat right and exercise when you can take a pill and have some plastic surgery? The same attitude applies when it comes to creating happiness and success…why cultivate your strengths and find creative ways to use them to make a difference in the world when you can just go and buy a $600 pocketbook and get a manicure?
I know this is supposed to be the “land of opportunity” but I’m beginning to think it is becoming the “land of delusion.”
I don’t have much to add, other than this is possibly your best post yet, Shilpan!
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These are great points Shilpan. The glitz of “celebrity” sucks people in. We can do well to avoid the cult of celebrity.
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I found this article through digg, and I must say it’s a gem. Excellent blog as well; I’m definitely subscribing!
I have to say that the celebrity life doesn’t really appeal to me. There’ too much hidden in it that can destroy a person. So many though are sucked into it as Lance pointed out.
The celebrity lifestyle will not bring a person happiness plain and simple. Happiness must come from within.
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Excellent post!
I have never been a fan of Paris Hilton, although I understand many are fascinated by the level of freedom she experiences due to her wealth.
Now I know that I REALLY don’t like her, after the “mink coat” crack. Though it’s obvious she is self-centered and self-absorbed (as many celebrities are), I didn’t realize that she was a party to cruelty, by espousing the wearing of fur.
I grew up around many movie stars and found some of them to be kind and productive people. Nowadays, being destructive is a faster path to “stardom”. Take a look at the negative messages being broadcast by MTV, reality TV and most of the media.
EEEWWWW! Yucky!
Nice post! Unfortunately a lot of people do not share your sentiment in regards to celebrities.
Keep up the good work!
-HIB
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I really agree that we put celebs up on a pedistal but why? For the kind of job they have? It’s just a job. If we are going to idolize people for their jobs lets idolize teachers and people who work for the good of our society, not people who pretend they are someone else infront of a camera.
I also get a bit wound up when celebs use their fame to promote a political candate. The don’t know anymore about politics than anyone else and yet they talk like they are an expert and their vote should count more. Well, they get one vote too. It is not worth any more than mine and their opinion is not worth any more than mine either.
Excellent article. I don’t watch or read anything with “stars”. People ask me what do you think of so and so, I say I don’t know I’m not interested in it. They gasp and think I’m not in reality. ME? What about them.
In India, Celebrities mean a lot. They define so many things out here. People blindly believe their heroes and do what they say. I know, it is a sad state but that is the truth. Leaders of the state and nation are elected based on the words of these stars, sometimes these stars themselves become a leader. I am not sure how capable these stars are, but they know how to make money and lead a comfortable life. It has become a routine these days. If you want to become a politician then start as an actor and you can become one easily.
I completely agree with your thoughts!
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Hi Shilpan - like Vered I kind of ignore celebrities but I guess they do influence a lot of people into buying crap.
They do have their uses though - well some of them do, like raising awareness of good causes.
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@Vered - I know you well and your answer resonates with my perception that you’d not care much for these celebrity hype.
@Jean - It’s scary to think that Parish Hilton can handle this big country let alone her own life.
@Nathalie - That quote from Paris Hilton reflects the sad state of our cult mentality.
@Fredric - Great point about Facebook and myspace. I’ve heard horror stories about myspace exposing young children to bad elements of our society.
@DaVIDYA - You have articulate the heart of this issue well, “What’s sad is that the paparazzi exist because there is demand for this useless information. If people didn’t care, the information porn would vanish.” — excellent point.
@Bamboo - Your thoughts prove that it is up to us to allow these celebrities to steal our freedom to think rationally.
@Tabs - I agree with you about the way we shout treat celebrities but our culture has treated them as superhuman. That’s the problem.
@Evelyn - I understand your view point about the act of kindness they are engaged in but our culture is not adoring them for their charity work, our culture is adoring them for their eccentric and many time obscene behavior.
@Mare - I agree with you. None of these celebs have any right to preach us about their political views as their views are biased and they know full well that there are people who follow them on any advice. This is nothing but an act to gratify their ego.
@Irene - Thank you for the kind words. I appreciate the fact that you want to share this with your daughter.
@Kim - You have a great point but media always sells what people like to buy. Obviously, our culture allows media to sell what is not in our interest. If all of us turn off TV then I wonder if media can keep covering stories of celebrities as it won’t be profitable.
@Kelly - I love this argument that you’ve made, “The people who are shoved down our throat by basically every media outlet rarely deserve the attention they garner, and the true heroes of the world are left toilign away in the shadows.” — fabulous.
@Ayesha - I’m humbled to read that you want to share this article with your students. Thank you.
@JD - Your argument proves my point — We worship the greatness of celebrities but we seldom strive for the celebrity of greatness.
@Al - I agree with you that true greatness lasts the lifetime. You have made some excellent remarks for our collective well-being as a progressive society.
@Lori - Great minds think alike. I agree with you that the major reason for the celebrity cult to exist is based upon the myth that happiness can be purchased. These people believe in instant gratification and who else can provide that other than our celebrities demi-gods?
Hi Shilpan,
Oh yeah! I agree. Celebrities are people just like we are. Their lives may be “out there” for everyone to see, and it may look glamorous, but at the end of the day, they’re really no different than us. They have the same problems, challenges, and joys. They’ve just taken a different path. A path I certainly wouldn’t want to be on.
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But Barbara - you are famous. I see your name everywhere
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@Hunter - Thank you for your kind words.
@Lance - Celebrity influence is growing to an alarming level and I agree that it is up to us, the common people, to combat this influence.
@Kat - Thank you for the kind words and subscribing to my blog.
@Jennifer - You’ve hit nail in the head with the fact that happiness comes from within and not from worshiping these celebrities.
@Brennan - I agree with you regarding the self-centered and ego gratifying lifestyle these celebrities have.
What a wonderful post, I’m glad I just found you -I’ll subscribe.
I work with people with eating disorders and am telling you the women (and more and more men) have this drive to look like the celebrities to the point of self harm. It goes so deep and cuts all races and socioeconomic lines.
It is so liberating to not have them (the celebrities) in my life….I have not watched TV for over 7 years and have found it to be a wonderful relief to live in reality.
Mahalo for the great insights.
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I can’t remember when I was last interested in celebrities - just because they were calebrities. I’m always more interested in people I know in some way!
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I see this wherever I go, wherever I work. People live through sports stars, movie stars, the queen, and whoever else the media shoves down their throats. Participating in life on the sidelines, watching rather than doing, people could be instead contributing their unique talents to the world.
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I’m laughing so hard with Paris Hilton’s comment. Many people think that she’s an idiot but she’s probably one of the smartest celebrities out there. She knows what we want and she is giving it to us.
As far as for me, I don’t really get caught up with celebrity stuff although I do love movies.
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Another option is to take the view of the protagonist in the Book/ Movie “In the Wild.” He chose to donate his money to charity, abandon society and teach himself to reconnect with the Earth through nature. He abandoned use of credit cards and almost the objects that characterize the material world. How many people would have the courage or inclination to reconnect to their souls in such a way?
Sounds like a lot of the people who are living on the beaches and in the lush jungles of Hawaii! REALLY!
I agree wholeheartedly with you. As a teenager I know what it’s like to pick up a magazine and feel bad about my body because it’s not completely perfect like a model’s. But over the years I’ve learned to accept myself for what I am and understand that celebrities are not better than me, they just have more money and a different job.
It’s scary how millions of people would do just about anything, including public humiliation, just to talk to a celebrity - it’s just insane.
Everyone, and teenagers in particular, need to value themselves enough to ditch comparisons and idols.
Congratulations for the post and the blog
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My take on this is simple - reject bona fide celebs - worship me instead. Seriously, it’ll take very little effort whatsoever.
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I never been one to follow celebrities. I do follow film, theater and music, but I don’t give a rat’s behind about their personal life and how they live.
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It continually amazes me that people would pay so much attention to the opinions of people in our society who spend their entire lives pretending to be someone they aren’t.
Thanks for writing this excellent post.