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Our chief usefulness to humanity rests on our combining power with high purpose. Power undirected by high purpose spells calamity, and high purpose by itself is utterly useless if the power to put it into effect is lacking.
-Theodore Roosevelt (1858-1919) 26th president of the U.S.

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I’m inspired to write this article by David | Beplayful.org who asked, “How do we distinguish our true passions for our false ones?” in response to my previous article, 3 Simple Steps to Kindle Your Inner Fire.
I’d like to dwell on this subject that has eluded all of us at some cross road in our life. I’ve had waves of zeal and enthusiasm that surfed my mind in the past about a new found passion only to find that these tidal waves receded in the matter of several days. I felt emptiness, a void with feebleness and deep guilt to perceive flakiness as a true, inner passion. I’m seeing many bloggers with talent and stardom only to disappear from the scene to leave thousands of fans hapless in the search of finding someone who kindled their inner fire once with vehemence. What happened?
Our mind has resemblance with vastness of the sky. I get drawn to what appears in the sky - the clouds, the sun, the moon, the rainbow, the showers. In reality, this appearance hinders the vastness that lies beyond what we can see. Vastness of our mind also is akin to the sky. Our constant desire to find happiness by wearing the tags of identity hinders the vastness of mind that possess our true passion, our true purpose.
While driving today, I stumbled upon a construction site that enlightened me with pathway to find a true passion, a true purpose. What follows is a metaphoric resemblance of how we can find our life long purpose.
1. Selflessness:
Our desires are like tidal waves, flirting with our mind constantly. Our mind gets focused momentarily with thoughts of achieving a physical form of attachment. It may be to become wealthy or to become famous. With the identity that we create in our mind, we get excited about others seeing us as a successful business tycoon or a blogger with vast readership. These identity masks create despair, haplessness when an outcome appears fuzzy at best in our mind. The best metaphor that describes a true passion is the sense of commitment and happiness, we feel when we fall in love with a stranger who influences our mind to overcome bad habits and fear of failure. We tend to do anything for that person without expecting an outcome favorable to us. It becomes a selfless act. True passion is akin to this state of selfless act. We begin to feel the deepness of our soul akin to the construction site with the deepness of the ground. Our passion, a true purpose should begin with the vastness for the mankind, with love and well-being of friends, family and our community.
2. Simplicity:
Simplicity is another touchstone of the life long passion, a true purpose. Simplicity is to eradicate attachment to our ego. When we borrow thoughts of passion, we borrow flakiness of identity - sometimes for one passion or another. We tend to buy clothes, books, training manuals in false hopes of becoming a success in chase of that passion. We forget that when passion dissipates as clouds do, our thoughts fall into the trap of hopelessness and a deep void. We end up cluttering our lives with clothes, books, training manuals that remind us of the false chase of a passion. Simplicity allows us to listen closely to our mind with a silence - resisting nothing, wanting nothing, lacking in nothing yet present and complete in all moments. Construction begins with simplicity - with old debris cleared, with land as clear as a mind with simplicity.
3. Mindfulness:
Abundance of articles exists on mindfulness. My intent is not to dwell on the meaning of mindfulness but more on its kinship with a true passion. Our intentions - wise and unwise manifest sensory information we receive filled with fears, expectations, likes and dislikes. Unwise intentions magnify the sensory information leading us to the pitfall of an expected outcome. Wise intentions receive sensory information yet remain aware of the present moment with vast focus on the task at hand - discovering a mind which is boundless. With the focus on the present, we see vastness of the sky beyond the clouds of fear, beyond rainbows of likes and dislikes - a vastness that encompass serenity and an eternal happiness. Construction begins with wise attention by the boundless mind which is determined to manifest the passion on the blueprint into its physical equivalent. Construction continues one day at a time with focus solely on the day until those days of work cumulate to the manifestation of a greater purpose of building an infrastructure that remains to serve humanity for years to come.
If we become conscious to apply these guiding rules to every passion that hits our mind like a tidal wave, we will develop a selfless, simple and mindfulness pathway to see through the vastness of the sky. We will see the true passion, a life long purpose hidden millions of miles behind those dark clouds yet shinier to fill our heart with energy of everlasting happiness.
Have you found one yet?
The man without a purpose is like a ship without a rudder — waif, a nothing, a no man. Have a purpose in life, and, having it, throw such strength of mind and muscle into your work as God has given you.
-Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881) British historian and essayist.
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I think i found mine - learn, practice, distill, create and share.
I tried Steve Pavlina’s approach of “crying” but most helpful was going through the list of strengths and picking the those that resonate with me the most
http://practicethis.com/2008/03/10/find-your-strengths-know-your-life-purpose/
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As you get to know your true self, you peel away the unnecessary layers full of misconception and misunderstanding. That’s what life is about.
@Alik -
So true. We have to begin with self awareness. Knowing ourselves is the founding block of a strong foundation of a lasting purpose. Great point.
@Liara -
You’ve hit the nail in the head. I marvel your wisdom. You are truly a wealth of knowledge on the subject of personal growth.
Shilpan
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Alik, LOL, I remember Steve Pavlina’s “crying” post. A lot of people might feel silly doing it, but if you cry, then I think you’ve found something. And I agree with you about the importance of identifying your strengths.
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“We end up cluttering our lives with clothes, books, training manuals”.
I love the idea of simplicity. I do try to live by it.
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I agree with you Vared and Shilpan on this one. When we don’t have a clear focus we tend to fill our lives with meaningless things. Then we become even less focused because now we have all the physical and mental junk that takes even more of our time and attention away from what is important. It’s a visious cycle. I am constanty looking for ways to simplify my life so I can stay more focused on what is important.
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true passion? i think it’s something that you don’t consider work or a chore to do. you absolutely love it, you breath it, it’s all you think about. true passion, IMHO, doesn’t need motivation, it is a motivator…it causes you to act.
this to is key: Construction begins with simplicity - with old debris cleared, with land as clear as a mind with simplicity.
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Shilpan,
Thank you for answering my question.
I think you’re in the right place - especially with the selfless thing. It’s almost like humility means being in the state of flow, when we are able to give ourselves to something not by forcing our will, but because the beauty of that thing consumes who we are.
Thank you for all your support for my blog.
David
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Wow, Shilpan. The essence of a well lived life. I am amazed at how your writing is resonating so much. Even your opening quote touches on my latest series, originally inspired by one of your posts.
Tolle differentiates inner (to awaken) and outer purpose but here you bring them together. Perfect.
For many years I have played with simplicity but its very challenging with so many interests and possibilities. (laughs) But if we can work for inner simplicity, the outer takes care of itself.
I also wanted to observe how your 3 points reflect what Patanjali called Sanyama. The 3 aspects of a perfect intention. And that would certainly arise in purpose.
Yes, I found my purpose. Thanks for continuing to inspire it.
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I like point #2 very much. I used to think it important to have as much possessions as possible, to live comfortably. Now I realise that clearing out the clutter is a better path to being happy.
Thanks for sharing your wisdom,
Evelyn
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@David -
Thanks for the insight. As usual, I’m learning more from you than reading countless books. Sanyama means control. With that virtue, we find our true self and purpose.
@Evelyn -
Yes, initially we feel sadden to remove the clutter as it creates feeling of attachment and identity. Once we realize that our feelings are nothing but mirage, we can easily get rid of the clutter and live very simple yet fulfilling life.
Shilpan
Shilpan’s last blog post..3 Guiding Principles to Find a Life Long Purpose
Hi Shilpan,
Excavating out the clutter, hauling it off, and backfilling my space with a whole bunch of nothingness, would please me to no end.
Simplicity is the key to an uncluttered home and mind.
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Shilpan,
Getting in touch with your own inner nature is essential to finding your own true purpose. When we constantly keep our focus outside of ourselves and what’s going on around us, we end up trying on everyone else’s role and passions to see what might fit. When we clear our minds and focus on our own strengths, talents and interests, that’s when we are able to find our own true passions.
This is a very important topic that a lot of people seem to need help with. Good choice for a post.
@Barbara -
I agree wholeheartedly about the importance of simplicity in our life. We are making life unnecessarily complex.
@Lori -
You always beat me in writing with big punch. You’ve clearly conveyed the gist of the post. Thanks for the kind words and continuous support.
Shilpan
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Theory and practice help us to distinguish between sensing and true self-understanding. Its one thing to assume you know or even to talk about a concept. Its quite another to experience it and evolve within yourself to convey it in such a way that other people begin to take it in. It has been said truth can only really be felt.
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