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We, humans, are gifted with the power of our mind among all the living creatures on this earth. Despite our difficult circumstances and failures, we have choice to believe in ourselves, hold our own image in high regard. That’s self esteem.
Self esteem is to consider yourself as one of kind in the world of billions of people with talent and personality unmatched by anyone. There has never been and never will be another you. We feel happy when we meet with people who we hold high in our assessment. You take time to learn their talents and beauty as a person but do you ever assess own self-worth ? Do you ever consider yourself as talented or as beautiful as your idols ? Who is stopping you from doing that ? It’s no other than yourself. It is no other than your own thinking. Over the years you allow external circumstances and opinions of others to stereotype a low self esteem syndrome as many of us do. Start thinking positive, start believing that your mind can achieve what it can conceive. Start feeling that you have what it takes to control your destiny, you are steward of your dreams and just when it seems that you’re out of luck, universe will come through with opportunity if you never doubt your ability to achieve dreams. Loving yourself will make you feel happy from within. That happiness will transpire in your attitude and your view of the world around you.
First lady Eleanor Roosevelt once said “No one can make you feel inferior without your permission.” Strange it may sound, lies in it a great message of self esteem. On your journey to success, you will meet curves of failures, negative winds of advice from your friends and family but all of that can not stop your journey if you have engine of determination and love for yourself, your talent and your self confidence from within. Politicians and news media are common divider in our society. When they constantly speak of one group against another on the basis of one’s skin color, gender or faith, their attempt normally is to demoralize your individual worth and self esteem depending on these criteria. You can only allow news media or politicians to pose obstacles to your self-esteem. Do not let someone else steal your dreams, deprived you to live life of purpose. Believe that you have unique set of talents to achieve anything your will has directed to become. Word self in self-esteem speaks loud of your own self. Start holding your head high. Commit yourself to become the best you can in your attitude, thinking and efforts.
Begin a day with smile and say everyday that you’re the best. Explore yourself and you will find gems of passion that you have not seen in you. Feel these gems and take care of them since they are incubator of your dreams. They will constantly remind you that the only limit to discover and fulfill your dreams are those you place on yourself.
Mind, a powerful mine, of yours is a great asset. Please do not waste it for thinking past of despair, failure and sadness. The rest will be a history. I guarantee it.
To Your Success,
